Once again, we mourn the senseless slaughter of children. I’m certainly not writing to discuss the politics or policy of any of this. I’m writing to say I’m here for you, and–we are so lucky–so are our pets.
The thing is, this type of tragedy feels like a regular occurrence. It IS a regular occurrence. The heart, soul, and head can only take so much.
So, we pet lovers are blessed with furry comfort turn to our pets for comfort and support.
I know many of you have children, lots of them school-age. Did you know: Simply patting a pet can lower your blood pressure and heart rate–and it’s not just dogs and cats. Even pets like rabbits and turtles relieve anxiety.
One of the best reads on this topic covers the Mood-Boosting Power of Dogs. I suggest a full read, but here’s a highlight:
“Dogs in particular can reduce stress, anxiety, and depression, ease loneliness, encourage exercise and playfulness, and even improve your cardiovascular health. Caring for a dog can help children grow up more secure and active or provide valuable companionship for older adults. Perhaps most importantly, though, a dog can add real joy and unconditional love to your life.”
As you talk to your children and try (try… because we don’t even understand it…) to explain these things, it might help to park them on the sofa next to your beloved pet so they can tangibly benefit by petting as you talk. Or, if they feel frightened–and, honestly, who doesn’t?– your family pet can help them cope with the terror and heartbreak. Maybe even consider bending the rules and letting your pup or cat sleep in your kiddo’s room… whatever works.
I know this isn’t typical dog-blog fare, but nothing about now is typical.
I’m thinking of you, your families, and your pets. If you need anything, if you want some ideas or resources on how your pets can help your kids, if you need help finding a local positive trainer, or just want someone to say “I’m scared, too,” I’m here for you.
Hug your kids–with and without fur–extra tight.
Amen to that! We have very different gun laws here and don’t have this type of occurrence as often (also due to the population) but we feel it as well and it saddens our hearts to think of the innocent lives that were taken.
Praying for the families of those children that they may find it in their hearts to move forward each and every day!
PS I couldn’t see the like button on this post but definitely agree with your statements regarding how very comforting petting a pet can be, mentally and physically.
Thanks so much, Shannon.
I’m comforted by my pets and by the fact that the survivors of this latest atrocity are demanding change in a very loud and clear voice. I’ve thought with the lack of action after Sandyhook this was a scenario that was going to be with me for the rest of my life. I hope the movement these students start will have the ability to change that.
You’re one of the heroes.
It is so horrific, and terrifying. But you are right, hugging our furries, or petting them can help reduce that anxiety.
I am very proud of the students who are demanding change. I believe they will make it happen.
YES! Those students are blowing me away. There is hope. Big, big hugs to you, dear friend.
I really love this post. Such a tragedy. Many people would never make the connection of such a thing to the simplicity of loving a pet. My children are 13 and 7 years old. Our puppy Euphrates is an American Molossus and was recently named the BIGGEST PUPPY IN THE WORLD. At only 9 months old and 175 lbs 31.5 inches to the withers she is the best companion and protector a father could ask for. My kids come home from school stressed soemedays and the first thing they do is hug our puppy and play with her. It seems as though the worries of the day just fade away in that moment.
Is there anything a puppy hug can’t fix? 🙂 I know that oversimplifies it, but I think the bigger picture answer is: We need more love and kindness in the world. And thank goodness for dogs!